- People exuberate confidence from the outside but its the internal self confidence that's important to understand and showcase
- Faith in what you believe and acceptance of oneself results in self confidence
- If you accept yourself than other also will accept you
- If I believe in what I am doing now, and think that's right than I can take it forward from there in the right direction
- Self confidence results from self consciousness which comes from soul-consiousness
- Self confidence is not about looking beautiful but being internally beautiful
- Understanding the following cycle that starts from a thought but results in personality development is important to impact your self-confidence
- Thought -> Feelings-> Attitude->Actions->Habit->Personality
- Changing a thought will result in changing the ultimate personality
Assertiveness
- Saying no with conviction is important than saying an yes with a grudge
- Energy transmitted from one being to the other is faster than exchange of words
- Integrity is always more rewarded and if the person has a genuine reason the other party will appreciate, they might get temporarily upset but will not get offended
- Be assertive, but not aggressive
- To be assertive you need to be assertive with yourself. if you do not take yourself seriously, than others can not take you seriously
